How to get boudoir images you’re proud of

Jan 3, 2025

Feeling proud of your boudoir images starts long before you step in front of the camera. It’s all about preparation, trust, and embracing the experience. As someone who specializes in creating intimate portraits that leave my clients glowing with confidence, I’m here to guide you through the process. Let’s talk about how to get boudoir images you’re proud of—and yes, it’s easier than you think!

1. Choose a Photographer You Trust

Your boudoir photographer sets the tone for your entire session. It’s essential to find someone whose style aligns with your vision and who makes you feel at ease. When you feel comfortable, it shows in your photos! Take the time to look through portfolios, read reviews, and even chat with your photographer beforehand. The right connection can make all the difference. This is exactly why I recommend choosing a personal brand over a big company where you don’t know who your photographer will be or their level of experience.

2. No Stress Guide to Boudoir Posing

One of the biggest myths about boudoir is that you need to know how to pose. Let me be the first to say: you absolutely do not!

During your session, I’ll guide you step by step—from how to angle your body to what to do with your hands—so every pose feels natural and flattering. 

Here are a few key steps we’ll cover during your session:

  • Start with the Basics: I’ll guide you into simple, natural positions to help you ease into the session.

  • Focus on Movement: Small, subtle adjustments—like running your fingers through your hair or shifting your weight—can create dynamic and stunning shots.

  • Work with Angles: I’ll help you find the most flattering angles for your body and show you how tiny changes, like a slight arch in your back or turning your chin, can make a big impact.

  • Bring Out the Emotions: Whether it’s a soft, sultry look or a burst of laughter, we’ll capture the emotions that make your photos uniquely you.

I’ll also adjust the smallest details, like a tilt of your head or a bend in your knee, to make sure you look and feel amazing. All you have to do is show up and trust the process!

3. Be Intentional with Your Wardrobe

Your outfits should reflect your personality and make you feel amazing. Whether that’s delicate lace, bold colors, or something sentimental like your partner’s favorite shirt, choose pieces that make you feel confident. Bringing a mix of options allows for variety, and don’t forget to include accessories to complete the look. Your photographer can also help with recommendations if you’re unsure.

4. Take Time to Prep

A little self-care goes a long way in helping you feel your best. Stay hydrated, get plenty of rest, and treat yourself to some pampering before your session. Whether that’s a fresh manicure, a skincare routine, or simply taking a moment to relax, these small steps can make a big difference in your confidence.

5. Trust the Process and Have Fun

Getting boudoir images you’re proud of isn’t just about the photos themselves; it’s about the journey. Trust your photographer to guide you, embrace the nerves, and let yourself have fun! The more you lean into the experience, the more authentic and beautiful your images will be.

Celebrate Your Unique Beauty

Boudoir photography is about celebrating YOU. Every curve, every laugh, every moment of confidence captured in those photos is uniquely yours. Whether you’re gifting these images to someone special or keeping them just for yourself, they’re a powerful reminder of your strength and beauty.

If you’ve been thinking about booking a boudoir session, now’s the time to take that leap. Together, we’ll create images that you’ll look back on with pride for years to come. Let’s make it happen!